One of the most arguable and unrealistic topic among the singles is if they can have a relationship without sex. A lot of people assumes that without romance or sex in place, they would build a boring relationship hence a little spice-up is needed.
A reader has once asked this question on sex and relationships Do I allow him have sex or not?
Well, that may sound easily right but here are some opinions by professionals in their various field. The diary of a sexual addict
I engaged some awesome minds on this topic to get their sincere view on “Can A Relationship Last Without Sex?”.
Read their view thus:
I strongly believe that sex is sacred. When you consummate with an individual, you are creating a ‘spiritual bond’ with him. Remember, your body is likened to the temple of God, and it deserves every iota of respect. When you have sex with your current boyfriend/girlfriend, who you cannot ascertain a future with, you are only telling him that you are a cheap commodity and he will treat you as such. If a man is not ready to go by the scriptures and wait till marriage, he does not worth you. Do not let your emotions ruin you. Sex is sacred, and is meant to be enjoyed when you walk down the aisle. Keep your body for that special someone. You don’t even know whether your current boyfriend, isn’t the right man for you. Do not jump the gun. Exchange ideas not sex-styles.
By Aminat Kalejaiye. Leadership and life coach.
It is very simple to have a relationship that doesn’t include sexual encounters when both people involved understand the importance of building a deep friendship, merging life goals and preparing for their future. When there is a lack of vision and spiritual focus, pre-marital sex becomes the temptation of blissful escape. When the two people engage in sex without a vision or clarity for their future and without a strong friendship , it causes emotional and spiritual hell. It is very possible to have a very beautiful relationship without sex but the two must be mature, focused and share the same vision to create a life that makes them feel good and they agree to live together rather than feed the impulse of body chemistry and regret it later.
By Nekisha Michelle. She is the Doyenne of Soulful Love and Hollywood TV Personality. www.nekisha-michelle.com
Yes, a relationship can last without sex… but with the addition of romance… I was in a relationship for three years without sex but we did romance… We were living fine because we had an agreement before we started the relationship… She was lucky, but you might not… but abstinence is the best… #NoRomance… She just broke up with me because it has weaken her spiritual life which is key to fulfilling one’s purpose in life.
By Benedict Olusola Amusan. Founder Reason2Live (NGO) www.reason2live.org
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