OVERCOMING MASTURBATION (PART TWO)
Earlier, I talked on the meanings of masturbation. If you missed the last series, Read Here
Let me remind you that masturbation is an unholy act. You cannot masturbate without lusting after another sexual image or scenes. Something happens in the mind before it becomes physical. You have to position your mind well to achieve orgasm. So, what is it okay to have thought of a naked lady you watched in a porn movie or remember the whole sexual scene. If you have to think on all this, then you have lusted after the flesh to commit an unholy act.
Let me bring in a recap of the meaning of masturbation:
“Masturbation is the stimulation of one’s genitals by using object, hand , mind sexual scenes etc. It could be done by a partner also.”
Let’s look at the types of masturbation.
According to my own terms, I have noticed three types of masturbation. Every form and type falls under this category, (I stand to be corrected here).
1. Hand-based masturbation
2. Object-based masturbation
3. Partner-based masturbation
1. The hand-based masturbation: This is a form of stimulation with the hands and some people go ahead saying that to have an healthy masturbation, all you have to do is to “Clean your hands, keep short nails, do it neatly and clean up when you are done”. Well, everyone always have a way around what they do and persuade people to believe them too. Don’t fall into that pit. There is always a guilt beyond just cleaning up.
Masturbation is boosted by the lust in your mind. When you masturbate, you’re either fantasizing about someone, a pretty girl you slept with, or the one you wish you could sleep with. What about the one that passes by your house which you’re now imagining what it would feel like to sleep with her? While masturbating, you are lusting after or ‘virtually sleeping with’ many women at the same time.
2. Object-based masturbation: Some people aren’t comfortable anymore with the hands so they go for an object. Some are so obsessed as to use candle, biros, sticks, bananas, etc. Some could even use turning sticks and spoons, (pun intended). Well, science has made it better and easier by introducing dildos in various size and speed. Isn’t this becoming out of line to use an object, plastic or iron?
3. Partner-based masturbation: Some people are not convenient with fingering or using objects. They prefer having someone do it on them. Lesbians and even sexual partners of every form practice this too.
Some people who are in relationships feel they can replace sex with masturbation. They stimulate themselves to reach orgasm and feel its safer that way. This is very common among intending couples.
Which are you involved in? Do you feel guilt after the act?
Some see nothing wrong in it but why do you hide to do it? Well, some can disclose it but it really takes a reprobate mind to do so. There is nothing healthy about it because it has adverse effects too.
Are you still battling with masturbation? Learn now and let God liberate you. Seek wisdom and understanding and put the devil to shame.
This is the second series. We would treat the causes of masturbation in the next series. Don’t miss it.
Incase you missed the last series , read it here: HOW TO OVERCOME MASTURBATION (PART ONE) Read Here
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